It is hard losing a parent, it is hard watching them age and get sick and the feeling of helplessnes is hardest of all. Both of your parents will be missed by many, but will also be remembered with love and fondness for the color that both brought to others.
May this simple thought bring you all some small comfort.
Condolence: Dear guys...sending you both hugs at this sad time and wishing you well as you tell your Father goodbye. Wish that I could be with you Sat., but does not look like it. Enjoy those great memeorires. Love, Judy